yes its so tribal!!! i see it everywhere

this is so sad and i feel it on every level even in an indian family: "Even in my own German family, asking for help is absolutely verboten. You have a family emergency? Fuck you, figure it out. God will provide, because you won’t get shit out of us. We have not gathered together for a family reunion for over 20 years. Family ties were never emphasized in my family, but rugged individualism was always encouraged. As a result, nobody has anything to do with one another, we have all grown apart."