The #1 thing that most comments missed here, is that there's validity in this statement.

We do a lot of inner work, but I've seen so many emotionally unavailable people, so many men who are subscribe to their ego, that it's made me wonder why there's no equivalent work being done by men as individiduals.

Dating apps harbor those who don't want aligned values, and moreso, those who are commitment phobic. Casual sex is avoidant behavior.

Everyone knows that the dating scene has become wayy too casual than it used to be.

It's as if the modern transactionalism of our time has seeped into the dating world.

I have been told: that my standards are too high, manipulated for wanting something real, have dealt with narcissists, and much more.

In the end, I don't hate men.

However, I question their shortsightedness.

Let's say there's someone who's pragmatic and emotionally intelligent, that's an even smaller pool of people.

Lots of married men do not value the housework that their wives do. Several cultures have inbred this as well.

It's about waking up to realizing how equal their partner is.