Tbh, its the patriarchy.
Yes it hurts men and women, and all children.
There's no balance in this day and age, where ideas have a concrete stability.
Everything has been made temporary and more negative than usual.
We are also a spiritually starved society, where the disconnect becomes real.
Extreme feminism, extreme mysogny is what makes this structure of society worse--- there's literally no need for it.
We have been ingrained to take the burden of many things without wondering what our self worth is.
RIght now it's a messy time to be alive as well.